Monday, September 19, 2011

Love Yourself And Get All The Attention You Want

By Haiden Bryant


Have you asked yourself recently what men are looking for? Do you wonder what you can do to get the attention of men?

You have probably wondered how you can get and keep that special guy interested. This is a common concern among single women in the dating world. It's a good idea to figure this out. Let me help.

First, you have to make a good first impression. First impressions are lasting impressions and if you make a bad one, you may not get a chance to make a second impression. You need to make yourself as attractive as you can. Don't despair, this does not mean you have to look like a supermodel. But you do want to maximize your good points.

Essentially, be the most attractive you that you can be. If you do this, men will notice and they will pay attention to you.

One big no-no is looking like you've given up. You know the look: t-shirt, sweatpants, ponytail, no makeup. No more, ladies! Look like you actually care and are making an effort. The slob look never won a woman any dates.

When you do your best to be attractive, and make the most of your potential, you will also have a great attitude. You will know that you look good, and this will show in the way that you present yourself.

The key is confidence. Think about how confident you feel when you know you look good. You exude confidence for the whole world to see.

The initial impression of how you look only lasts for a few moments. What will then hold a man - or not-is how confident you are. Mousy, fragile women are not attractive. You want to be self-assured, fun, independent, and engaging. Men can tell if you have that certain something that tells them you will be able to hold your own. And if you do they will be drawn to you like a moth to flame.

Remember, your physical appearance is very important and you need to make the most of your looks. But confidence is what makes or breaks it with men. There are plenty of insecure but attractive wallflowers out there - because they don't know that they are attractive, and so they don't have that spark a man is looking for.




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